Thursday, January 27, 2011

Becoming a mother for the very first time...

Posted by Esh's Haven at 5:34 AM
Becoming a mother is really one of the greatest things that ever happened to me. It is indeed very fulfilling on my part to get to experience the wonderful feeling of being a mother for the very first time.I truly believe that the first time moms out there also felt the same thing.I was 22 years old when I got pregnant, a bit young for some girls to get married, however for me, it was already the perfect time and I am proud of it.I am just so thankful that
during those times,my mother was very supportive and was always there to check on me 24/7 just to ensure that every thing was very much okay, since she knew what it feels like to be pregnant and the hardships that you have to go through.She taught me a lot of things like the things that I should do and what to avoid, food to eat, and so on,inorder for me to be healthy through-out my pregnancy. I really learned a lot from her and some of them are still very helpful, which up to now I can still apply when it comes to raising my daughter.

Becoming a mother for the very first time was basically very overwhelming. I was really excited then and at the same time, a little nervous since I have no idea at all on where to start. As what I have mentioned above, I didn't know what things to do first and most importantly, how to take care of my baby. I am also scared if what it feels like to finally give birth, and how painful the labor was, since it is not really the delivery of the baby or giving birth is the painful stage but the labor stage was really the painful one. I thought the pain was tolerable  but I was totally wrong. My mother was always telling me that it is indeed very painful,but I never imagined that it can be that painful.Yes, the pain was really unbearable and because of this, you can really tell to yourself that you don't want to get pregnant anymore.Lol.

However,when the moment came that I finally gave birth to a healthy baby girl, all the sacrifices I made paid off and all the pain I've experienced, vanished in an instant.All I wanted at that time was to cuddle her,  for her to feel my warmth and my love for her.And all I could utter during those moments was, "it's all worth it".


Yes, the exact feeling when you get to see your baby for the very first was truly amazing. The joy and the excitement you felt at that very moment was really indescribable. All you want is to protect her from anything that can cause her harm.

As of this writing, my daughter will be turning 4 years old.I cherish every moment with her and I really spend more quality time with my daughter since time is just so fast and before you knew it, she is all grown-up.

So, for all the first time mothers out there,just enjoy every moment of your pregnancy. And once you get to see your baby, I'm very ascertained that all you can utter at that very moment, as what I've mentioned earlier in this post, "it's all worth it".

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